600 Million Women Disappeared

January 29th, 2010

Although I had read some articles by Nicholas Kristof in the NYTimes, I wasn’t prepared for the impact his book Half the Sky had on me. Six hundred million women have disappeared from the face of the earth in the last two decades? How? If the fetuses of the devalued girl children are not aborted the girl usually dies of neglect or malnutrition.  Trafficking in girl children and women has increased exponentially all over South East Asia in countries like the Philippines, India, and Cambodia. Girls as young as seven or eight are either sold by their impoverished parents or kidnapped by traffickers. Hooked on drugs, the prostituted girls get infected with AIDs and die young. These are the ills of poverty and greed. I could go on …

 The book also gives us a sliver of hope; protests from around the world have forced governments to try and stop the abuse of under aged girls.   Half the Sky has compelled me to do something in whatever way I can, and I thank Rufi Natarajan for showing me a way. I also applaud Mercy Corps for the tremendous work they are doing in distressed and forgotten pockets of the world. I find myself endlessly talking about the book and feel I accomplished something at dinner last night by having a man from the World Bank volunteering to purchase and read it.  It is a must read, not only for women, but also for men.  

Three Cups of Tea with Greg Mortenson

January 29th, 2010

I could hardly believe my ears when a woman called to say she was inviting me to a fundraiser for Greg Mortienson in  New Jersey.  She was Sadia Ashraf from Greg Mortenson’s Central Asia Institute (CAI). Greg has been my hero ever since I read his magnificent “Three Cups of Tea.” When she told me they would add my novel “Cracking India” to the gift package each guest would recieve, I was blown away.

The fundraiser took place at the Hyatt in Brunswick, New Jersey on Oct. 24th 2009. It began with a reception at which Greg Mortenson and I signed our books for patrons.  By six o’clock the banquet hall was packed with over 800 guests.  A group of children easily won over the audience when they recited verses pertaining to Mortenson’s schools in the remote mountains of North Pakistan. Mortenson and to a much lesser extent I, were continuously approached by the crowd to autograph our books. The gift package included “Three Cups of Tea”  and the young adult and an illustrated children’s version of the book.

The theme for the evening was defined by the book’s subtitle “One Man’s Mission to Promote peace – One School at a Time.”  Mortenson, a mountaineer who has built over 150 schools in North Pakistan and Afghanistan, spoke of the pressing need for schools in almost inaccessable regions that still exist in a bygone age. Since its inception, The Central Asia Institute founded by him has promoted and supported community based education, especially for girls, in the remote and almost inaccessible reaches of the mighty Karakoram and Hindu Kush mountains. The Institute not only helps build schools, but provides scholarships, medical facilities, teacher training and seeds incipient libraries.

Through his personal story in “Three Cups of Tea”, Greg Mortenson has been influencing people globally. He has been able to motivate students to launch the Pennies for Peace program in schools all across America. For more information on this program, please visit http://www.penniesforpeace.org/.

Today, “Three Cups of Tea” is not only sold in bookstores worldwide, but is part of curriculums in schools and a mandatory read within US military and government organizations assigned to the area. Earlier last year, Mortenson launched a Young Readers version of the book aimed at elementary school children and in December 2009 he launched the long awaited sequel: “Stones into Schools” This has already climbed to the fourth position in the New York Times Bestseller List.

Mortenson gave a stirring talk of how his project came about. On his way back from an unsuccessful assault on the K2 Mountain he got lost and was befriended by the inhabitants of a small hamlet. When he asked the village elder, who Greg came to look upon as a father, what he could do in return, the elder told him, “I have no education and neither do our children because we have no schools.” He requested that Greg build them a school. Greg determined to do so. He got virtually no response to the hundreds of letters he sent requesting funds for the project. Eventually another mountaineer gave him the seed money for a school. “Three Cups of Tea” details the enormous struggle to build the first school. Later an article on him in Parade Magazine suddenly brought him donations from readers to build several more schools.

The event was well organized and the evening’s talks and films were inspirational. The dinner raised around $230,000.

To learn more about The Central Asia Institute or to make a donation, please visit https://www.ikat.org/Photo courtesy Usheen Davar

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